7 min 4 dys

🌱 GROWING IN FAITH

🪞Lesson 1: Reality Check


📘 1.7 Questions

Reflection, decision, and growth


Questions:

1. Reflect on your life. Can you identify life events that placed you in a Laodicean spiritual condition? Which events brought you closer to God?

2. Ellen White speaks of “a continual receiving of His Spirit.” How often do you pray for the Holy Spirit? What might change if you received the Holy Spirit every day?

3. What might change if we, as a church, prayed more seriously and more regularly for the Holy Spirit?

4. Be brutally, even painfully, honest with yourselves regarding your relationship with God. What conscious decisions do you need to make in order to have the closeness with God that He desires, but that you are preventing?


📖 1. Introduction – God seeks you first

Before you ever even thought about God, He had already thought about you.
Even before you were born, He had already loved you.

He did not wait until you sought Him —
He came after you.

Like a good shepherd, He seeks you,
calls you
and invites you to remain with Him.

The decisive question is not whether God wants to —
but whether we respond.


📜 2. The biblical foundation – Invitation to exchange

God offers us an exchange:

👉 our weakness for His strength
👉 our blindness for His clarity
👉 our emptiness for His fullness

(Revelation 3:18–19)

That means:
We do not have to remain as we are.

But this exchange does not happen automatically —
it requires a decision.


🌍 3. Connection to our time today

Our spiritual life often does not progress evenly.

Sometimes we grow slowly, almost imperceptibly.
Sometimes we experience “surges” — special moments in which God meets us anew.

But regardless of that, one truth remains:

👉 Without daily connection, faith withers.

Just as a branch needs sap every day,
we need the Holy Spirit every day.


💡 4. Central message of the lesson

A living faith does not arise once and for all —
but through continual receiving.

Ellen White describes it this way:

👉 a continual receiving of the Spirit
👉 a life of complete surrender
👉 an uninterrupted connection with God

That means:

Faith is not an event —
but a daily process.


✝️ 5. Theological focus

The image of grafting shows something profound:

A branch does not simply become “better” —
it becomes connected.

👉 Life comes through union.

“Fiber by fiber” the connection is built,
until the life of the vine flows into the branch.

That means:

  • Faith is relationship, not performance
  • Growth is the result of connection
  • Fruit is the consequence of life

📖 6. The questions

1️⃣ Looking back on your life
Take time intentionally and look back honestly:

  • Were there phases in which your faith was alive — and others in which it became more “routine”?
  • Which specific events (e.g. stress, success, disappointment, sin, distraction) distanced you spiritually?
  • Were there moments in which God was especially near to you? What was different then?

👉 A deeper thought:
Often it is not big decisions, but many small ones, that lead us into a Laodicean condition.

👉 Goal:
Not to look for guilt — but to recognize patterns.


2️⃣ The Holy Spirit in everyday life
Many Christians believe in the Holy Spirit — but do they also live with Him daily?

  • When was the last time you consciously prayed for the Holy Spirit — not generally, but specifically?
  • Do you truly expect Him to work in your daily life?
  • Or are you still trying to do many things in your own strength?

👉 Imagine this:
Every morning you would consciously pray:
“Holy Spirit, guide me today.”

What might change in:

  • your thoughts?
  • your reactions?
  • your decisions?

👉 Deeper point:
A life without conscious asking is often a life without conscious experiencing.


3️⃣ Church & shared prayer
This question goes beyond you — it concerns the whole church:

  • How much room does the Holy Spirit really have in the shared life of the church?
  • Is there more organizing — or more praying?
  • Is dependence on God visible — or rather human planning?

👉 Imagine this:
A church begins to pray seriously, regularly, and together for the Holy Spirit.

What might happen?

  • more unity instead of conflict
  • more spiritual depth instead of superficiality
  • more courage in faith
  • more genuine transformation

👉 Deeper thought:
The greatest change often begins not with programs — but with prayer.


4️⃣ Honest self-examination (the most important point)
This point is the most personal — and perhaps the most difficult.

Be truly honest, even if it hurts:

  • Are there things in your life that you know are distancing you from God?
  • Are there habits, thoughts, or priorities that are blocking your relationship?
  • Are there decisions you should have made long ago — but are still postponing?

👉 Examples could be:

  • lack of time for God (because other things seem more important)
  • certain sins that are tolerated
  • pride or independence
  • lack of priority for spiritual life

👉 The decisive question is:

Not: “What is wrong?”
But:
👉 “What am I willing to change?”


🔍 Summarized for point 6:

These questions are not a test —
they are a mirror.

They show not only where you are,
but also where God wants to lead you.

👉 And in the end, everything comes down to a decision:

Will I be honest —
and will I respond?


🔧 7. Daily application

These questions are not only meant for reflection —
they call for an answer.

Practically, this can mean:

consciously asking daily for the Holy Spirit
being honest before God — without excuses
taking concrete steps (even small ones!)
consciously nurturing spiritual habits
staying faithful, even when it is not immediately “noticeable”


8. Reflection question

If God calls you today:

👉 Will I respond —
or am I still hesitating?


🌟 9. Closing thought

God loved you first.
He took the first step.
He seeks you — every day.

But relationship does not happen without a response.

👉 Growth begins with a decision.
👉 Life comes through connection.
👉 Fruit comes through the Spirit.

And everything begins with one simple step:

👉 Open your heart — and remain in Him.

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